WHAT’S YOUR “WOMANABILITY”?
Your womanability is a combination of things that makes the woman you are uniquely you.
Too many of us go through life never understanding or realizing what our womanability is.
That’s so sad, because that just means you’ll have to come back into this world, again, to figure out what it is.
It’s kinda like those crazy video games our kids play: you can’t go up a level until you master the one you’re on.
Discovering (and wholeheartedly exploiting) your particular womanability is the key to mastering this lifetime.
Your womanability is hard-wired into you — you were born with it, and no other woman on this planet is made like you are. For so many women, their womanability is still under lock and key, waiting to be discovered.
DO YOU BELIEVE IN YOUR WOMANABILITY? BECAUSE IF YOU DON’T, WE’RE GOING TO HAVE TO STOP TALKING!
If you don’t believe you have a certain-specific-utterly-unique set of skills, talents, and most importantly, a way of being in the world, well, then this conversation must end right now. I’m sorry to see you go, but I’ve come to realize that a woman who doesn’t believe 999billion100percenttimesinfinity that she has an inherent “brand” that can propel her into the stratosphere, thereby changing the dynamic of the entire universe, this conversation is over. We’d be speaking two different languages.
ME: OMG, you’re amazing. Can you imagine what can come of all this amazingness inside you?
SOME WOMEN: No. I’m not. I’ll never be like whatshername. I’m not smart enough, thin enough, pretty enough, young enough, enough enough.
Oh dear. Don’t get me started!
I used to try really hard to convince women of their womanability but some, sadly, don’t want to hear it. If that’s you, I’m so sorry to hear that. You have no idea what you’ll be missing but I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate my arm-twisting. You might even get mad at me. I wouldn’t want that.
But for those of you who are “all in” when it comes to discovering your personal brand, the things that make you uniquely you as a woman, a mother, a wife, a girlfriend, a sister, a business owner, then we MUST be friends. Because, you see, part of my womanability is getting other women to discover their womanability.
I love that about me.
Only when you can define your womanability will you be able to build a business (or a marriage, or a friendship, or a life for that matter) that you truly love, and that gets you jumping out of bed every morning. That’s why so many heart-centered entrepreneurs feel like a failure at a job—they simply aren’t using their womanability, and it doesn’t feed their “why.”
So think about it… what is your unique womanability?
What makes you different from all the billions of other women on the planet?
Exercise: Email Yourself For 30 Days
Yes, you heard me. 30, as in thirty, days. Open a blank page in your email and start an email thread between you and you. Write to yourself and ask yourself some questions about you.
What makes you laugh your ass off?
What do you love to think about?
What are you really good that other people struggle with?
Who do you admire? What qualities do you have that remind you of that person?
I’m sure you can come up with more questions. Pretend you’re just getting to know you.
This is fun! AND, you’ll get an email from someone you love every day. See if you can keep this going for 30 days. Trust me, it will force you to dig deep and force you to get to know you.
In love and guts,
Creator of theWomanUPproject.com
PS: Taking the time to write to yourself every day will be a constant reminder of your womanability. Let me know how you do in our private Facebook group for coaches!